I’ve noticed that things usually start at a simmer and heat up. Attraction. Interest. They happen all the time, if you’re paying attention. But explosive, “you are THE one” fireworks? That’s something that happens much less often, and I’m not sure it’s all that trustworthy when it does happen. What starts with a bang often ends in a crash.
The thing is, if you’re expecting fireworks, you might not even notice the more modest form of attraction. The person you feel completely comfortable with. The person you aren’t trying to impress. The person you think of telling first when something funny happens.
Give that person a chance.
Maybe the person you’re meant to be with is someone you already know.