Ready or Not…It’s Up to You

As you know if you’ve been reading this blog or checking out GreenlightCard.com, we like the idea of embracing chance encounters. You see, we’ve found that more often than not, the most interesting possibilities arise when you aren’t out looking for them. They just appear.

Like when you’ve just finished a workout and are all sweaty and high on endorphins.

Like when you’re having fun with your child or grandchild at a park, when flirting is the last thing on your mind.

Like when you’re leading a group at work, and you know just what you’re doing and are comfortably in command.

When you are being you, people around you notice. They are drawn to you, not your age, height, weight and astrological sign, but your intuitiveness, your sense of fun, your intelligence, your drive.

It might not even be the things you like best about yourself that someone else finds attractive—he or she might be drawn to your endearing clumsiness or your inability to say no to the child who wants one more push on the swing.

So what should you do this weekend?  Make a vow to yourself right now that you won’t try so hard or worry so much about meeting the perfect person.  Just be you.  Have a great time.

And carry your Greenlight Cards, so that you’re ready when it happens.

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Filed under Advice, Dating Unplugged, Greenlighting, Offline Dating

2 responses to “Ready or Not…It’s Up to You

  1. Like when you’ve just finished a workout and are all sweaty and high on endorphins. << i agree with you

  2. I think most people look their best then, too…messy hair, a nice flush…

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